Some of my older readers may remember the 80’s song “Goody Two Shoes” by Adam Ant. I thought it was the perfect title for this post. At one of my recent weddings the father of the groom asked me why I wasn’t dancing. I politely explained that I don’t dance while I’m working. He then asked if I’d at least had a drink since I’d been working so hard on his son & daughter-in-law’s wedding. Again, I politely explained that I don’t drink while I’m working.

His response: “You don’t drink. You don’t dance. What do you do?”
My response: “I work and I work hard!”

I hope my clients and their family and guests understand that it’s not personal. I’d love to join in the festivities and help celebrate their nuptials but that’s not what I was hired for. I was hired to make sure everything runs smoothly and timely and to put out any fires if they arise. I don’t feel that I can do that if a problem arises and I’m on the dance floor doing the latest line dance. I also don’t feel I can be fully aware and alert if I’m drinking. I treat my clients as if they were the most important boss I’ve ever had. So the same way you don’t dance and drink on your 9 to 5 job is the same reason I don’t on their wedding day. I want them to have my full attention.

Now it would be a different story if I’m invited to one of their events as a guest…then they might have to drag me off the dance floor…lol.

After each wedding I usually take time to reflect on the whole day. What I’ve noticed is there are a few things that I always remember most about a couple’s wedding day.

1. Calling my brides on their wedding to say good morning and wishing them a Happy Wedding Day! They are always so happy and upbeat and EXCITED. I love that!

2. Seeing the bride in her wedding dress (with all the trimmings…veil, jewelry, etc.)

3. Seeing the proud face of the bride’s father (or escort) as he prepares to walk her down the aisle.

4. Opening the doors before the bride makes her grand entrance. For me it’s like opening the curtain at the beginning of a play. It deserves drama and grandeur.

5. Watching the groom’s face as he sees his bride for the first time.

6. Seeing the humongous smiles of the happy couple as they are pronounced husband and wife…and the even bigger smiles as they recess up the aisle hand in hand.

7. Seeing the look on the couple’s face when they see the décor and design of their wedding reception. Although they usually know all of the elements that will be included in the design, it’s another thing to see it all set-up.

8. Watching the couple dance their first dance. Love is always in the air and on their faces.

9. Saying goodbye to the happy couple (and their parents) at the end of their celebration. I usually get a BIG hug from them as thank you for helping them plan such an important day in their lives. It’s one of the best feelings!

10. Driving home excited about downloading any pictures I (or my staff) have taken during the day just so I can see things one more time.

11. Talking to my couples when they return from their honeymoon so I can hear all about their wedding day (from their point of view) as well as a few details of their honeymoon

12. Seeing the photographer’s photos and/or the videographer’s DVD and re-living the day all over again!

I know I said 10 reasons but I thought of two more. What can I say…I really love weddings! Maybe I should change the title…lol. Leave a comment and share your favorite thing about weddings.